I hate girl drama!

I'm just not good at it. I had the guts to tell someone that something they did made me feel excluded and therefore I wouldn't be joining them on an outing this week that was going to put me in the same situation. They didn't say anything at all. Didn't acknowledge it, didn't apologize, didn't deny it. Yeah, so thanks for that! Word got back to me that she said my feelings w/ another person involved so I sent an email pretty much telling her that her behavior w/ this other person made me feel uncomfortable and that I didn't want to go through that again. From this person I got, sorry you feel that way, but yeah we do that. WOW! Really??? Thanks for taking my feelings into consideration. I like to think that I'm a pretty good friend to people and that I go out of my way to help a person out and what not. So when the same isn't offered to me it hurts, deeply. I'm pretty crushed right now and what really stinks is that I know that to not cause more drama I shouldn't talk with anyone in our circles about it so yay, I get to just keep it all inside, we all know how healthy that is! So let me paint the picture for you..... let's pretend that you are invited to go somewhere with friends, you arrive and it is just the three of you. Through out the course of the time together you are repeatedly walked away from, excluded from conversations, and even while eating together at a table one of the people literally has their back to you as they continue a conversation w/ the other person about people you don't even know, while they share food all buddy buddy like and no one has given you any thought. At one point, they even walked away in the store and left you with all of the kids. So, yeah, that was a wonderful time and I really can't wait to do that again, NOT!